Sit-rep #1- What the h***!!! I’m really gettin sick of everyones sex drama. The first course of action would be not to engage in it at all until you’re mature enough to deal with it. (now-a-days that would add up to 105 yrs old.)
*Second course of action, Kick his a** to the curb, if your partner is not interested in pleasing you in the bed or back seat or where-eva on this level, then they won’t want to do it on most other levels either.
*Third course of action- Put the lollipop that dosen’t dissolve in the doghouse. Only do this if the relationship is serious enough that the two of you can carry it on without THAT becoming an issue.

Scenario #2- OMG!!!!! I saw the previews for that movie with Monique and a fit brotha was sweatin her. Puh-leeeeese!!! The only way he would be sweatin her is if he was trying to lift her off his fitness membership card. Standards are great, but we need to live in reality ppl. If we degrade others that are in the same pkg we’re in, only means we don’t like how we see ourselves. I’m a big fella, but my wife is petite. I didn’t pick her, God led HER to ME. (she hit on me) we’ve been married for 10 yrs and still going strong. But my type/standard which attracts me is different. (won’t get into that here) So sounds like someone needs to work on themselves in this sit-rep.

…and I’m out!