Control

A friend of mine recently asked me how to properly ride a guy.  She said the guys she had been with were all happy to be getting some and never had her on top.  What a crime against nature!  All women must master the art of riding because it helps us reach orgasm easier in this position.  Let me share the variations that I found on SexInfo101.com….

Control

Ladies there are several positions where you can be in charge.  Sometimes it seems that sex is all about control, and so much of that sexual control is all about the man, and how he exercises it. That is what makes women-on-top positions so revolutionary in some ways. It is a chance for both parties to switch roles and try something new.

There is a general assumption that men have all the power in sex and that practicing women-dominant sexual position is somehow a completely female power issue. But if you look more closely it is clearly noted that in many ways giving up some of the responsibility for pleasure in bed can give men a break, and a chance to lie back and enjoy the ride. As an alternative men can have fewer worries about lasting and thrusting and making sure that the women orgasms.  With men being on the bottom and in a less active role, men can focus on their breathing and their pleasure.

Women can charge forward in search of their orgasm. Women can position their lover’s penis so that it hits all their hot spots, or so that they can grind their man’s pelvis against their clitoris. By taking control of their sexuality, women can sometimes be able to enjoy it more and more likely get what they are looking for from the sexual experiences. Men like to see women in dominated sexual positions. Pay attention men, this is for you as much as it is for her.

Here are some sexual positions for women on top:

Acrobat Position

An extreme form of the rodeo position, the acrobat is a very intimate transition from its more common cousin. The easiest way to get into the acrobat position is to have the giver lie down on their back then have their partner lie down backwards from the rodeo position. One side note; unlike the rodeo position, the acrobat requires the giver to take over stroking duties.

Amazon Position

Not for the timid, the amazon can be one of the tougher women on top positions. It is not the easiest position to get into, but it does give the receiver a sense of control and power that is absent or low in most positions. To get into this position, the receiver squats over their partner while resting on the back of their legs; which are brought towards their chest to expose them at a unique angle. If the receiver is comfortable with their balance, they can reach behind and under to give their partner some additional manual stimulation

Armchair Position

One of the more creative positions, the armchair is hours of fun once you can get the rhythm down. To get into this position, the giver sits up with his legs straight while their partner sits on top of them with legs on the giver’s shoulders and arms being used for support. Unfortunately, it takes quite a bit of strength on behalf of the receiver to perform this position, so you may need to train before you can enjoy all of its glory.  

Cowgirl Position

A great modification of the armchair position, fusion allows for much greater penetration mobility, and thus increases the pleasure. To get into the position, the giver sits in a straight legged position while their partner sits on top of them while leaning back. Although it tends to tire the arms of the receiver, the position is a blast while their muscles are still fresh.

Fusion Position

A great modification of the armchair position, fusion allows for much greater penetration mobility, and thus increases the pleasure. To get into the position, the giver sits in a straight legged position while their partner sits on top of them while leaning back. Although it tends to tire the arms of the receiver, the position is a blast while their muscles are still fresh.

Reverse Mastery Position

The reverse mastery position is one of the highest rated; it puts the receiver on top while keeps penetration mobility high and its rear entry while remaining very intimate. To get into the position, the receiver sits, facing away, on top of their sitting partner. The reverse mastery position is incredibly versatile, so make sure to experiment with it on other furniture… a few ideas to help get those creative juices flowing: a chair, stairs, or the edge of the bathtub.

Inverted Missionary Position

The inverted missionary is exactly what it sounds like, the missionary position with the receiver on top and the giver on top. Getting into the position is very easy; the giver just lies back on the bed and has the receiver lay on top of them. Variations in the positioning of the receiver’s upper body can also allow for body kissing, breasts, neck, or sternum, so feel free to move around and experiment.  

Inverted Rear Entry Position

A variant of the acrobat position, the inverted rear entry position was one of our panel’s favorite positions for intimacy. Unlike its close cousin, regular rear entry, this position offers incredible access to the receiver’s chest and neck while offering a great penetration angle for g-spot or prostate gland stimulation. To get into the position, the giver lies on a bed with their partner lying on top in line with them. Note: since the receiver doesn’t have very much leverage, movement is mainly the giver’s responsibility.

Seesaw Position

A very intimate position, the seesaw will definitely bring you and your partner closer. To get into this position, the giver sits up with his legs straight while their partner sits on top of them with legs planted on either side. Although movement is limited, don’t underestimate the passion that can be experienced using it.

So Ladies, let’s enjoy the ride and make that man grin from ear to ear.

Sensual Element