From time to time, I will engage in discussions about various topics.  This is the first topic of choice.  Enjoy!!   

Why do people engage in ANAL SEX?  Is it the pleasure or do women do it just for their man?  Why do men want anal sex? To breakdown the answers to the questions, I gathered friends to answer why people engage in anal sex.  

Here’s some feedback based on women and men.


Women engage in anal sex in the beginning just for their man but if the man does it “right” then it will be very pleasurable for the woman as well.  Also, engaging in anal sex will depend on the mood.  For instance, if the man wants anal and his woman is in a sexually heightened state already, it is more likely that the man will receive anal sex.  Women may not participate because they are waiting for marriage and trying to hold onto some type of virginity for the man they marry.  The number 1 key to anal sex is the lubrication.  It has to be the good stuff, not the cheap stuff for $4.00.  It has to be the best glide for the penetration.  Women can not just stand there waiting for the guy to roll deeper into their anus.  It works best if the woman moves in sync with the guy as he penetrates his head in her anus instead of tensing up.  A couple of myths women believe when it comes to anal sex are it is painful, the anal is for exit only, not entering.  These may be true, but its only painful if the woman fights against the movement of the man.  The more she’s against it, nine times out of ten, it just won’t happen.      


Men had to say first off that every man is not into anal sex.  It is just something different for the penis to penetrate.  It’s something about the hole being tight and that just isn’t right.  Now on the flipside, for those men who enjoy anal sex.  Men find it VERY VERY PLEASUREABLE when they find a woman who’s a SOLDIER and can endure all it takes.  The man finds this to be three times ecstasy.  If a woman is willing to engage in anal sex, the guy is more likely to take his time and work with the woman to make sure she feels comfortable. 

Remember: Go slow when trying anal sex, and trust and relaxation are essential.

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  • Unknown March 16, 2007 at 4:57 PM

    Good first topic! You must have wonderful friends since you are able to engage in such topics. Thanks for the lesson on ANALism!!