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Pink Pump Love
The temps have increased and I have been day dreaming about Spring and Summer, about which color I will use for my next pedicure. I am excited about wearing open toes and slingbacks. *I know it is early, but I can dream*
Pink is a flattering color for all women. Adds freshness and flare from baby pink to bright, bold fuschia.
Pink by Aerosmith
I stumbled on these Fab Christian Louboutin pump sandals. They remind me of a vanilla cupcake with strawberry frosting *yummy* The pink color softens the shoe. Somehow, I believe that if this sandal was in Black patent leather, I would have thoughts of whips and handcuffs.
Asos’ Satin Pleated Peep-Toe platform shoe is adorable. Losing the bow on the side would allow the Fierceness to shine through. The price is not bad at all <$17.
I love, love this all-leather pump from Lotus. The shoe contains 2 of my favorite elements (metallic and snakeskin). I am not a fan of the T-bar, but I could definitely make it work. The detailing adds a lot of visual interest. I would pair with a navy skirt. The price is > $200.
I just may get the Asos shoe. The price is friendly, but I am curious about the fit.
I will also be rocking the MAC’s Hello Kitty nail polish in Something About Pink. The color is more fuschia than in the picture. Definitely a must have for Pink or Hello Kitty fans.

MAC's Hello Kitty Something About Pink
Mix Maven
Pumps And Gloss: Fall Luxury Shoe Picks
The summer will be over before you know it, so it is time for us to focus on Fall fashions.
You know that shoes are loved on this blog (hence the first part of the name)
Joyful Radiance and I always send each other Neiman Marcus links for shoes that we love and adore, yet cannot afford…well, if we want to be homeless and not pay our mortgage, we could get them LOL. Anyhoo, Christian Louboutin is one of our favorite shoe brands. Each season, he comes out with some gems that we drool over.
Here are our Fall 2008 Luxury shoe picks:
The first pick is the Open-Toe Passementerie Pump.
The detail on this sexy pump is exquisite. The word “passementerie” meant lace in early French, but now means designs made from silk cords (braiding) or bead work. I can see the design on a lamp shade and draperies. The red color is very festive. A definite 5 out of 5.
This rouge, pleated satin pump is the hotness!! I would not have to wear these shoes. I would put them on a pedestal and gaze upon them all the day. I would pair with an updated sheath dress in Royal Violet. (So First Lady!!)
What fall trends are you looking forward to?
Mix Maven
Glossy Friday ~ March 21, 2008
Happy Friday Glossy Ones,
You know how we do it on Fridays…
FRIDAY FREAK
Ray J. is back with “Sexy Can I.” Gotta give it to Ray – he has been coming out with jams in recent times (“One Wish,” “What I Need“). While T-Pain caught flack for commenting on Ray’s “meat,” we have to agree with T-Pain 100%! LOL! Ray can get it at minute 2:45, getting his D’Angelo on! Yum!
FRIDAY FLASHBACK
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Speaking D’Angelo, let’s go back and peep one of my fave videos of all time for very obvious reasons. Whenever I watch “How Does It Feel,” I have this overwhelming feeling of wanting to bump the camera down! Big ups to D’Angelo for giving us Ladies some eye candy!
I heard this on a Russ Parr “Wrong Song” mix last week and wow, it took me back. Here’s Oaktown 357 with “Juicy.” If you want to see it in color, click here.
SEXY SHOE PICK
Decisions, decisions!



You will be killing them softly in these Jessica Simpsons. The “Jacie” has the shine, the style and the 4.5 inch stilleto heel to turn heads. I couldn’t decide which color is the hottest – tell us which color you would rock!
I would definitely invest in the black pair, but the other two colors are simply dazzling. I would love to see Jess do a chain of shoe stores.
SWIM SUIT SEASON
Are you longing for summer like I am? This has got to the be coldest and longest winter ever! SIDEBAR – If you haven’t read “The Coldest Winter Ever” by Sister Soulja, please believe it is a great read. An urban tale of life’s ups and downs, I could not put it down when I read it a few years ago. Ok, sorry, back to the matter at hand….I plan on dragging Mix and Sen to the beach as soon as it gets hot. Here is a darling ensemble I plan on getting from Old Navy:


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How cute! Green is my fave color, so I’m too thrilled! LOL!

Or step out on the beach like a Top Model in this tank with matching bottom – that’s Dani from ANTM btw. I love it paired with the bracelets.
Think you don’t have the body for a swim suit? Then get a plain one piece suit and pair it with a cute cover up – it will look like you have on a dress:

I love breezy black and white prints for the summer.

How cute is this one!

I would wear this one as a cover up and later on, pair it with some jeans. Old Navy has cover ups that go up to a size 3X. No need to be ashamed to go to the beach this year Ladies – you do you!
AEROBIC STRIP TEASE
If you have been with us from the beginning, you know Sensual Element’s first post was about Carmen Electra’s strip tease. Here is a clip of the routine that you can use for exercise and for turning things up with your lover.
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10 SEX CRAVINGS ALL GUYS HAVE from Cosmopolitan.com
Stuff Women Need For Spring
Spring is nigh. I know you are looking at your winter wardrobe and you cannot wait to pack them up for storage.
Everyone needs a hip trench (all-weather) coat. I totally love the asymmetrical collar and masculine plaid that create a feminine look.
Polka-Dot is wonderful, which is why I love this shades of green polka dot dress. The colors are fresh and spring-like. Makes me more excited about the season.
Alexander McQueen’s Pink drape dress intrigues me. I like the dress because it is very bold and eye-catching. Not sure where I would wear this to, but I think I want this dress!
I do not wear much jewelry except for wedding rings and a miscellaneous bracelet here and there. Actually, I love bracelets, but I do not own many, but I definitely want this pave wide cuff bracelet. (Just delicious!!)
Clutch purses are my favorite, especially from Banana Republic. BR has not sold an acceptable clutch since 2005, so I am loving the yellow lizard-embossed clutch…. a great accessory for spring/summer.
Ok, ok, so you know every woman needs a Christian Louboutin (any time of the year). Everyone knows I love a shimmer and sheen.
Honorable mention for Spring: Gwen Stefani’s L.A.M.B. Darrel’s Black/Yellow/Green pumps. I gotta have this shoe because of the the wonderful island of Jamaica’s flag colors, the land of my birth. Would I wear them, probably not, but that does not mean I should not have them!
Have a happy spring ( starting March 20, 2008).
Mix Maven
Spring is Springing
I do not mind cool weather, I just do not like cold weather. I swear that this winter has been the coldest on record. (probably not)
I am totally looking forward to Spring. Spring time is pedicure season, which means SANDALS & PEEP TOE PUMPS!!!
Christian Louboutin always keeps his shoes interesting. I am curious who was the inspiration for this shoe: a silver lace-up slingback. I do not think I would wear this shoe, but I am sure there are plenty of ladies out there that would.
I love green in most shades. These Nine West special occasion slingback in a medium green satin is adorable. The heel is 4.5 inches, therefore you must have beaucoup de confidence! I know Joyful Radiance will love this shoe.
Nine West also has a delightful leather kitten-heeled slingback in mid-tone green. I would pair this shoe with a classic sheath dress.
I want to give an honorable mention to Marc by Marc Jacobs Purple suede peep-toe pumps with silver stones. My friend, Renita, loves purple and would want these shoes badly. I love the classic yet chic look.
I love the shimmer and shine of it all. My favorite of the season:
Stuart Weitzman Luxury Evening Sandal. I have a couple weddings to attend this summer and you might see me rocking these captivating sandals. I do not think these shoes are made for walking, so you may not see me wearing them on the dance floor.
Are you all looking forward to Spring?
Check out Paolo Nutini’s song “New Shoes”
Mix Maven
Glossy Monday Variety
Hey Glossy Ones,
Hope you all had a great weekend!
MONDAY MELODY
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I have always loved this song – “Valentine” by Lloyd.
MONDAY FLASHBACK
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“Boomerang” had some of the greatest songs on its soundtrack. Here’s “I’d Die Without You” by P.M. Dawn.
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I had to throw this clip in! LOL!
JOY’S PURSE PICK

I adore this Kate Spade Daisy Shopper bag – with the dimensions of 10 1/2″H x 8 1/2″W x 5″D, it is the perfect size for work, school or travel.
JOY’S SHOE PICK

This Via Spiga Shoe is too darling – not too loud in color and cool enough to wear with jeans. The Equate Mary Jane Pump is a must have.
A QUICK HISTORY LESSON ON VALENTINE’S DAY
Valentine’s Day is a holiday celebrated on February 14. It is the traditional day on which lovers express their love for each other; sending Valentine’s cards, or offering candy. It is very common to present flowers on Valentine’s Day. The holiday is named after two among the numerous Early Christian martyrs named Valentine. The day became associated with romantic love in the circle of Geoffrey Chaucer in High Middle Ages, when the tradition of courtly love flourished.
The day is most closely associated with the mutual exchange of love notes in the form of “valentines.” Modern Valentine symbols include the heart-shaped outline and the figure of the winged Cupid. Since the 19th century, handwritten notes have largely given way to mass-produced greeting cards. The mid-nineteenth century Valentine’s Day trade was a harbinger of further commercialized holidays in the United States to follow. The U.S. Greeting Card Association estimates that approximately one billion valentines are sent each year worldwide, making the day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year behind Christmas. The association estimates that women purchase approximately 85 percent of all valentines.
GOD’S DEFINITION OF LOVE
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. ~ I Corinthians 13:4-8
LOVE IS…ACCORDING TO THE SIMMPSONS
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EIGHT HATEFUL THINGS WOMEN DO TO EACH OTHER
I got this through e-mail, so the author is unknown – if anyone knows who wrote this, please let us know!
It’s become the silent emotional killer among women. Women who are downright mean, malicious and disrespectful with each other. This trend is creating havoc in our relationships with each other, for it strikes the core of sisterhood. Real sisterhood can only exist when respect and trust stand unshakeable. In this particular, most men are quite opposite to us. For a man, a brother is a brother. However, what is most disturbing about our malicious ways is that we are passing on a legacy of a broken sisterhood to our daughters. Girls that are mean and catty are usually this way because their understanding is that this is a normal part of femaleness. They grow up to become mean and catty women who perpetuate a diseased sisterhood. To break this cycle we each need to make a conscious effort to validate all women. Be their friends or not.
Otherwise, we will continue to find ourselves moving within circles of female hostility, suspicion, and pain. Here is my list of the most detestable practices that we need to discontinue in order to heal our sisterhood:
1. Talking about each other – You are really not her friend if what you
have to say about her is so bad you can’t say it in front of her. If you
are a real friend you should be able to tell her your concerns for her
life to her face. If you have the need to tell others, but you haven’t
found the time to tell her – red lights should be flashing. Believe it
or not, gossiping is not an intrinsic part of being female. Women who
gossip do it not because it’s a woman-thing, but because they want to
elevate themselves and put other women in a place of inferiority.
Gossiping is just another symptom of deeper insecurities.
2. Fighting for men – One of the most undignified things that any woman
can do is to fight, argue, or curse another woman over a man. It’s a
disgusting trend that used to be a school girl thing, but today adult
women are doing it too. If both of you are in conflict – because his
choice is not clear – then that means that he’s really not into any of
you. He’s probably playing both of you. That man really does not deserve
love or attention from either one of you. Let him go.
3. Joining female gangs – Women who make you feel unwelcome and unwanted within their circle of friends are not to be trusted. Women cliques have
become common in the workplace, at church, in the neighborhood. Cliques
are the dwelling place of insecure women. Women who join cliques are
seeking refuge from their own lack of confidence by cocooning themselves
within this circle of supposed exclusivity. Again, the need to belong
to, or be part of a clique is also a sign of deeper insecurities.
Beware, cliques are usually encouraged and thrive on a type of gang mentality.
4. Undermining each other – Beware of any woman who can never celebrate your accomplishments with you. It could be a new boyfriend, a promotion,
an award, a new job, a new acquisition, weight loss. If she has nothing
positive to say to you about it, does not show emotional support, or
chooses to remain silent she is not a true friend. Real friends know how
to recognize and genuinely rejoice for our successes with pride.
5. Competing against each other – You need to get this straight. There
will always be another woman with nicer hair, a more caring husband or
boyfriend, better behaved children, a better paying job, a bigger house,
a more fashionable wardrobe – there will always be some woman with more
of what you don’t have. Consequently, the only person that you need to
compete against is yourself. Strive to be the best that you can be – for
you. Competing against other women to prove yourself superior is a
financial and emotional drainer. Because of this mindless competition we
become mean, envious and hypocritical. It is pointless.
6. Disrespecting boundaries – To survive peacefully every relationship
and every friendship must have clear boundaries. Good relationships
operate within margins of respect. Within this level of respect, privacy
and intimacy are keywords. Yes, you are my friend, but that doesn’t give
me the right to walk into your bedroom or your kitchen, unbeknownst to
you, and help myself to your stuff. I don’t do this not because you
won’t allow me to, but because I respect your privacy and your things.
Consequently, we both need to know and respect each other’s levels of
privacy and intimacy.
7. Crossing boundaries – This is similar to the above; the only
difference is that my respect of your boundaries should never depend on
my friendship with you. We need to respect women for the simple fact
that they are women. If she is a woman she is a sister. Period.
Therefore, from that understanding I will have the utmost respect for
her children, her man, her opinions, her choices, and for her as a
person. It amazes me how women are quick to disrespect another sister’s
boundaries, but feel offended if another woman does to them the same
exact thing. Honestly, that type of inconsistent behavior can only be
credited to some form of mental illness.
8. Exploiting our friendships – This is a major one. Why are you
friends? Do you only remember her being around whenever she could get
something from you? It doesn’t even have to be material. It could just
be your time or your positive energy. Does she happen to be always on
the receiving side, with you dishing out ton loads of yourself or your
stuff? Or is she your friend because of what you represent? It could be
that your husband’s position or yours, your possessions, your talent,
whatever, represents some form of achievement. Is she a friend because
that link to you places her on a higher platform? In a real friendship
appreciation, support, and loyalty must be reciprocal.
Have a wonderful week!
~ Joy
Glossy Monday – The Pink Edition
Hey Glossy Ones!
Hope all of you are doing well, staying warm, and living stress free….well, as stress free as you possibly can!
MONDAY MELODY
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Keyshia Cole stepped up her game in the video for “I Remember.”
MONDAY FLASHBACK
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I had the BIGGEST crush on The D.O.C. – whew, so fine! Check him out in “Funky Enough.”
JOY’S PURSE PICKS

Sensual Element can tell you how hot Dooney and Bourke is - not only does she have a D&B, she has a fabulous matching wristlet that she better watch closely or it will be in my possession!
The D&B Crossword Bucket bag is darling in light pink.

The Shop Girl 2 Tote by Kenneth Cole is a must have.
JOY’S SHOE PICK

I love the color of this shoe! So bright and pretty. The Nine West Lecia is a must have for you ladies getting glammed up for Valentine’s Day.
THINK PINK
I have been coming across some really cool pink items for the ladies, including those suede bad boys above this section!

How I LOVE these jeans! The pink cat is too fly. The Baby Phat Large Black Cat Hipster Jean will be purchased with my next check! LOL! They come in sizes 0 through 13 and 14 through 24.

Are these Baby Phat Silvie Wedges adorable or what?

I love this Coach Heritage Stripe Wristlet with the two dramaticlly different shades of pink.

Why Sprint couldn’t come out with this pink Palm Centro before Christmas, I don’t know! I’m not hating on my red one, but oh, this pink one is sooooooooo cute!
MONDAY PRAISE
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Kirk Franklin is back with “The Fight of My Life.” I call myself hip to Contemporary Gospel, but this cd came out without much publicity.
WORD TO CARRY YOU THROUH THE WEEK
I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.
~2 Timothy 4:7
Have a GREAT week!
~Joy
Joyful 2008!
Hello Glossy Ones!
Happy New Year and all that good stuff! I hope you all enjoyed the holiday season as much as I did. While I didn’t have a whole two weeks off like some people, I enjoyed my holiday time off all the same.
Since we at P&G are getting back into the groove, no formatting from me today. Just straight blogging!
Let’s talk about my great Christmas gifts! Yippee – I must have been a really good girl because I was blessed with such awesome gifts! First off, I have FINALLY joined the iPod revolution!

My hubby really spoiled me and got me the green (my fave color) iPod nano. I love, love, love it!!!! I started loading songs Christmas day and as it stands, I have over 400 songs on it already. I found a very cool and slender speaker for it at Target for $15.00 and the sound quality is excellent. So I put the iPod, the cool leather case hubby got for it, the ear buds and the speaker inside a make up bag (got it from BBW and it says “SPF-Stay Pretty Forever” – so cute) and carry it in my bag to work.

Hubby surprised me with this Palm Centro too! Yummy and I chatted about about this phone when I initially posted it last month. The phone is a small size and if you wear fake nails, this is not the phone for you! The buttons are on the small side, but still very functional. SO MANY great features on this phone, I don’t even know where to begin! Great access to e-mail, four instant messenger programs, including Yahoo and AOL, awesome On Demand features that let you check the news, weather, entertainment, and even TV Guide, and a Call Tone feature where you buy a song clip to be played when people call you. So if you are special enough to have my number, you will hear “Overjoyed” by Stevie Wonder playing while the phone rings on my end. I haven’t bought a case for it, so it gets carried in one of my Coach wristlets – it’s a perfect fit.
My girl Dani got me the greatest gifts ever, including this Coach signature frame keyfob. Dani got me black on black with the white stitch, which matches my Coach hobo and shoes perfectly!

I got a number of gift cards – Bath and Body Works, Macy’s and Nordstrom to name a few. I used the Nordstrom gift card to get the Amazing Grace perfume, which I absolutely love!
No pics of what my folks got me – a fly suit for work, gift cards plus money, and shoes. They even bought a stocking full of toys for my pup, which have all been chewed to shreds!
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Switching gears, the only song that I am really jamming right now is “Falsetto” by The Dream. “Ooo, Ooo, Baby, I, I, I!” Love it!

My first must have shoe for 2008 is the Nanette Lepore Snake-Embossed T-Strap. Four inches high and I love shimmer of the snakeskin against the neutral color.
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Gotta leave my Glossy Ones with a Word to carry you all through the week. Short, but powerfl clip – Martha Munizzi singing “I Know The Plans I Have For You.”
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
~ Jeremiah 29:11
Have a Wonderful Week!
~Joy
Glossy Monday Variety ~ 12/03/2007
Hey Glossy Ones,
Happy December!
I sit here all bundled up because my cold turned in to a sinus infection. Can you believe that I have been sick for the whole month of November?! Ugh, it hurt me SO bad that I couldn’t get out on Black Friday. Hopefully, I will be able to get out and shop with Mix and Sen – I know they must be half way done with their Christmas shopping by now!
MONDAY MELODIES
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P&G Reader D-Dub has requested Alicia Keys’ new song, “Like You’ll Never See Me Again” (above). I’m really digging this song too. D-Dub also pointed out that Alicia and Common are in this video together, as well as in Common’s video “I Want You” (below). Common is SO fine! Thanks D-Dub!
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MONDAY FLASHBACK
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Speaking of Common, here is my all time favorite song by him, “Come Close” featuring MJB.
SHIFT HAPPENS
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I received this link through e-mail and I found it completely fascinating. I encourage all of you to take the time to watch it.
The video was created by Karl Fisch and modified by Scott McLeod.
MONDAY CHRISTMAS MELODY
For the month of December, I will share a Christmas song to help spread the holiday cheer.
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Mix Maven posted the orginal version of “This Christmas” by the late, great Donny Hathaway (any of you know anything about “Where is the Love?”) last week. Here is Chris Brown’s version from the movie of the same title. I’m told it was a good and cute movie that will become a holiday favorite. I’ll be going to see it as soon as I can!
CHRISTMAS SHOPPING FOR MY FOLKS
I got started on my post today and almost forgot that I told you all last week that I would share what I plan on getting my parents for Christmas. Here goes…..
I don’t know about any of you, but my Father is the HARDEST person EVER to shop for, be it Birthday (could it be because he’s a Taurus?), Father’s Day or Christmas. My Dad is a BIG sports fan and player – believe it or not, my Dad will be 60 next year and he actively (and competitively, trash talk and all) plays tennis and basketball.
I have already bought many a basketball, tennis racquet, gymshoes, etc. But when I got my Mom some Jordan’s for Mother’s Day this year, I could have sworn a saw a smidge of jealousy in his eyes. :-) So check out the Jordan gymshoes that I am debating on getting my Dad this year:

Jordan Men’s Hoop Low Basketball Shoe – Currently $59.98 at Finishline.com

Jordan Men’s B’Loyal Low Basketball Shoe – Currently y $79.98 at Finishline.com

Jordan Men’s Pure Game Basketball Shoe – Currently $79.98 at Finishline.com

Jordan Men’s Rising Star Basketball Shoe – Currently $99.98 at Finishline.com
I am leaning towards the last two pair. I’ll probably order a long sleeve Jordan tee and be done with Dad. Whew!
On to the sunshine of my life, my Mommy. Here are a few ideas I have in mind for “my girl”:
Now Mom has asked for Adidas wear. She is an avid walker and loves the fit of Adidas jogging suits. I’m not going to post any Adidas stuff here because there is a lot to choose from, but check out this link to JCPenny’s to see what they have to offer.

My Mom has a Burberry purse with matching boots. I was thinking these cashmere ear muffs would be so cute!

I always try to give Mommy a piece of jewelry. I think this Tiffany bracelet is so pretty. I love how the heart is integrated in the bracelet. This is a definite gift for Mom this year. The Tiffany store is always crowded beyond belief during the holiday season – so much so that a line is formed inside the store for help. I will order this online and have Mom’s first initial engraved on the back.
Still debating on what else I could get Mom, so brain storming is still in effect. I’ll keep you all updated.
MONDAY PRAISE – The Christmas Edition
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I love, love, love Vanessa Williams’ version of “What Child Is This” – jazzy!
Let us remember the real meaning of Christmas!
For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. ~ Isaiah 9:6
Have a wonderful week!
~Joy


























